A walk in the mud

Can't say I'm great with mud... But three boys loved it and made for a lovely walk.


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Can't sleep

It's 3.44am and I am awake.

This seems to be coming a more frequent affair. I can't even blame anyone else.

Been up now, just over 2 hours. Back at work tomorrow after the break and it has a distinctive "first day of school" feel. The freshness of a new year with its anxieties and aspirations.

So what's the cure for insomnia... How long should I just lie here?



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Pinetum pictures

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The honour of your father

Sigmund Freud was profoundly impacted when his father was abused whilst walking him in his younger days. His father did nothing in retaliation. The injustice haunted his son the remainder of his life.

Recently, I had my honour fought for me by my son. I was playing a friendly game with a friend. It was a remote control fork lift truck battle. The aim to tip the other fork lift over. A skillful battle indeed especially when you have a unreceptive vehicle. A young audience gathered and started to cheer us on. Then Caleb getting so involved insisted to take over. I let him. My fork lift was over turned. I lost. There was cheering and sighing.

As I threw my hands in the air acknowledging my defeat Joshie stormed in and threw the victorious fork lift down and proceeded to say in a teary, and angry, voice "papa wins!"

Whilst shocked I was also honoured that someone stood up for me. That I was cherished by someone to defend me. Even a four year old.




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A photo collage app... Loving it!

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Selling down the Pantiles

Cold but fun!

Some old photos and mucking around on an app again

A collage of some photos from Wheaton.



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Location:Chestnut Walk,Tonbridge,United Kingdom

New life... Old life

Just heard about someone who has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. He recently had a baby.

Another told me how he was filming 3 people. The first a person losing her husband. The second a couple that miscarried and lastly a person who has been coping with unemployment. Each were sharing how they cope and continue to cope in such adversity. One was sharing about placing a rose in her garden. His film was about being accompanied in those lonely places and simple things that remind them of greater perspectives than their immediate situation.

This year has certainly had it's share of challenges for many. Going through such times alone reminds me of the desire we each have for deep companionship for someone who simply accepts and understands us.

That couple who miscarried, the chap who told me about his film project, continued to share that they are expecting again.


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Christmas parties

Just got back from a wonderful party put on by Family Action for families they are working with in our area with social services. I was asked to help lead on some of the games and loved seeing the fun had by parents and kids.

So much joy and fun in the games, finding Santa the crafts and all come about from collaboration between agencies working with the families.

I was told during the build up some of the parents were repeatedly asking whether they had to pay for such a party and they were answered no its an opportunity to let their families have some fun and enjoy a few of the festivities over this season.

Well done Bore Place, Family Action and VSU for putting this on... A privilege to serve with you.


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i love this house

Joshie just pushed his hands in the air and exclaimed "I Love This House!"

He continued "I was really angry ... and now I'm Happy".

I love it. It a simple joy. A great reminder especially when I see all that is wrong with this house and all that I want and would like to see happen. Even some degree of anger at some of the challenges that I face.

Thanks Joshie for reminding me that I, too, love this house.

A winter's day at Bedgebury

We're cold... But smiling!

Location:Lady Oak Ln,,United Kingdom

Lurgy

It's that time of year when feeling rough is part of the day to day.

Familiarity of the symptoms: sore throat, feeling achey, lethargy, knowing others are succumbing and it's a waiting game.

My solutions are hot drinks with ginger and honey with a splash of brandy, extra sleep and a whole lot of sharing the battle with others :)

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... And they have a Xbox here too

:)


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Location:Herbrand St,Camden Town,United Kingdom

Funky offices

I've been to a few funky offices recently. Today's one is like sitting in a magazine. I'm sure I'm the only one wearing a suit. The other week had one with an amphitheatre where people were sat with their MacBook air and pros on their phones.

Here's a pic from where I'm sitting awaiting my first of five meetings for today:


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Location:Herbrand St,Camden Town,United Kingdom

mucking around on iMove: a wedding trailer

so there's some funky trailers that you can make in iMovie. i had a crack using the footage from our chicago wedding. a lovely reminder of a superb wedding:

Early starts

Sunday morning. 6.58am. Lying on the fold out bed watching tv with Caleb & Joshie.

Love these moments.

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Santa's grotto

At school Christmas fair waiting to get into the grotto...



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Location:Tedder Rd,Royal Tunbridge Wells,United Kingdom

Movember

My Movember efforts. Started a week late... But here's about three weeks effort.

Audrey

All I keep hearing about from caleb is his friend "Audrey". He's recently been holding hands at playtime, writing his name and drawing pictures for her.

Certainly this is a first for me.


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Mucking around with a photo app