Joshie got baptised this weekend!
It was such a special morning.
Here's the livestream (33.03 - Joshie’s testimony & 43.36 - his baptism)
the world as we see it, by (A)ngie (B)enjy (C)aleb, (J)oshua, (R)euben and (E)zra
Joshie got baptised this weekend!
It was such a special morning.
Here's the livestream (33.03 - Joshie’s testimony & 43.36 - his baptism)
More recently, when we moved we realised that living out of town meant that we are jumping into cars a lot more. A lot more!
We've been convicted that we should try to find another car, but prohibited down to costs. With Caleb now 18 we also felt that we should be getting him driving ... my mum insistent to gift him the driving lessons having put all me and brothers through it wanting to pass it on. Joshie is only weeks away before being eligible himself to start learning.
When asked recently by the board of EA what our current needs are, I said a smaller more economical run around car would be incredible.
It turned out there was one that was looking for a 'good home'. But what was more special was it was from the lady who first housed a family fleeing Uganda in 1972 settle in Sevenoaks. That family was my Mummy & Papa and eldest brother (just 6 months old). They stayed with this family for a while as a home was being prepared for them. During this time, they learnt about markets, where to shop how to work out the locals and have a friendly ear. Their daughter even wrote a Welcome poem for us. A poem that I have shared many times during Empathy Action's Desperate Journeys debrief (and my papa once shared to the church that they all belonged to).
It all of a sudden feels like 'more than just a car', but a special gift (again) and one which means more to us than just a set of wheels.
A little story for a wet Friday night. Near my house I found a wallet in the road. When opening it I found a bank card, some cash, a library and a youth club card. And also a front door key. The person who dropped it is 14 and could be locked out so I set out to find him….1/6
I started with massively profitable MNC @Barclays
Bank. As I’m not a customer I couldn’t use their chat bot function so I rang customer service. The recorded message said I would have to wait between 10-20 minutes. After 36 minutes the phone was answered…. 2/6
I explained the situation and gave the information on the cards. I asked the customer service person to contact the person (they have his phone number) and tell him we have the wallet and are happy to return it. We were told this ‘against protocol’…. 3/6
In vain I pointed out that I didn’t want any information or to contact the wallet owner just to reassure them and give them my details. After 15 minutes of failed persuasion and being told it would do no good speaking to someone senior I gave up. Then, plan b 4/6
I contacted the cash-strapped York library service. The lady answered the phone in less than a minute. By the time I had explained and given the boy’s library number she had already identified the boy’s mother’s email and offered to immediately contact her. A minute later…5/6
…the boy’s mum grateful phoned me and told me where to take the wallet. ‘My son is autistic so he would have been very anxious so this is such a relief’ she explained So, the result: ‘profit maximising multinational financial institution 0, cash starved municipal service 1.
This has got to be one of my most incredible experiences. To not only introduce an incredible and brave headline act (Balaklava Blues.. who I first met when watching their show Counting Sheep) that is at the cultural edge in the war in Ukraine at a festival but do so with two incredible Ukrainians who took a moment to bow whilst asking for help find 50 homes for sanctuary seekers.
Here's the capture from Reuben.
Slava Ukraini!
This could be our last day with the primary school that all our children have attended. 12 years. 4 children. And now as we face a move away from Tunbridge Wells, this could be our last day here.
It's also the last day for the current Headmaster, Dan Turvey (or Mr T for us). He sums it up when he says:
"I would like to leave you with a final thought. As a teacher and parent of four children, I can speak with an element of hindsight! Our children are precious and it is us the adults who have been given the absolute privilege to raise them and teach them. So be kind, be patient and encourage them whenever you can, even when you feel tired and exhausted yourself. Talk to them as much as you can, read with them, sing, dance, play and enjoy being together. In these busy times, full of work, after school clubs, shopping, devices and TV, the best thing that we can do for our children is to spend time with them. You will never get it back!"
We had the delight of celebrating 20 years in this wonderful spot for a few days with the help of a few people.
7.16pm on Maundy Thursday we saw this beauty directly outside of our home. It comes at a time where we were asking for a divine sign.
What a wonderful sign of light that is broken by a multitude of raindrops and only when the circumstances are correct do they project this awesome display.
Someone once shared with us that it's also a covenant... a covenant of broken light. We love this and what a time to see it. Especially today!
"Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."- J.M Barrie